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Comparing Yourself To Others

Tweet Be Careful When Comparing Yourself to Others There is a huge difference between using a role model or icon’s accomplishments as a goal and comparing yourself to that person. One can be a motivational tool but comparing yourself to someone else can be deflating and inhibiting. We always seem to be comparing our lives…

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Confidence

Tweet The Trust Connection I am convinced confidence is the key to a fuller life.  I would like to look at the connection between trust and confidence. The definition of confidence is often boiled down to a strong belief in yourself and your abilities. However, this definition misses an important component of confidence and the boost it provides in your ability to…

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Danger of Insecurity

Tweet Insecurity! We all feel insecure at times.  Sometimes it may be a new situation or environment which leads to a sense of insecurity.  However, I want to focus on those deeper rooted feelings that we may not be good enough.  This lack of self worth expresses itself as insecurity. Bogs You Down The manifestation…

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Fear

Tweet Fear is a part of our existence.  Our DNA is hard wired and our physical responses to real danger are instinctive.   But fear is not danger but a mental perception of a possible danger.  This is a key distinction that almost everyone misses. Fear lives in the unknown. We are afraid of what…

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Statement of Purpose

Tweet Have a purpose or mission to accomplish, makes achieving your goals easier.  You should be focused on your task or goal.  All your actions and thoughts should be directed towards the goal. This mind set increases your confidence and it is proven that confident people have an easier time with achievement. How Do You Get…

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Slackers – How to Handle Them

Tweet We know them, they are in the office,  are in our department, they are everywhere. They are the slackers. They do little, hide a lot and get by while aggravating the hell out of us. Slackers take credit for work done by others, pretending to have contributed. Slackers are experts at appearing to be busy and…

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Social Science Experiment Is Over

Tweet Somewhere along the way we lost ourselves. We no longer demanded that you act responsibly, work and civilly participate in society. No One to Blame but Ourselves We looked the other way, selfishly enjoying ourselves, while ignoring our responsibilities to parent and teach.  We didn’t set expectations for those dependent on us and attempt to manage…

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Pride? We have lost it!

Tweet Its Obvious We encounter scores of people in our day to day lives who seem to have no pride in what they do.  Their lack of pride contributes to shoddy, uninspired performance and dulls our lives. Without spirited, caring interaction in our daily lives we are less joyful and productive. Somewhere along the way we seem to have…

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