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Posts Tagged ‘Insecurity’

Self Esteem

Tweet Self Esteem and Confidence The lack of a healthy self esteem is a dead weight on your life.  It’s like dragging around an anchor,  and it relegates you to the dark shadows of existence. Low esteem is simply a self created falsehood.  Plain and simple.  Unless you are a truly bad person (i.e., murderer,…

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Confidence

Tweet The Trust Connection I am convinced confidence is the key to a fuller life.  I would like to look at the connection between trust and confidence. The definition of confidence is often boiled down to a strong belief in yourself and your abilities. However, this definition misses an important component of confidence and the boost it provides in your ability to…

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Danger of Insecurity

Tweet Insecurity! We all feel insecure at times.  Sometimes it may be a new situation or environment which leads to a sense of insecurity.  However, I want to focus on those deeper rooted feelings that we may not be good enough.  This lack of self worth expresses itself as insecurity. Bogs You Down The manifestation…

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Fear

Tweet Fear is a part of our existence.  Our DNA is hard wired and our physical responses to real danger are instinctive.   But fear is not danger but a mental perception of a possible danger.  This is a key distinction that almost everyone misses. Fear lives in the unknown. We are afraid of what…

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Confidence – Self Esteem – How to get it.

Tweet Are we born with it? It seems like some people have always been brimming with confidence.  This can be frustrating and especially intimidating for those who lack confidence. How is it that possible? There are many reasons why some have self esteem levels that help them socially and in their pursuits.  (maybe they were…

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Children at risk!

Tweet The length and depth of the current recession, its NOT over yet, is creating a level of homelessness for children that is unprecedented.  Persistent high unemployment, much higher than the government claims (but thats another subject) has put millions, yes millions of children in danger. It’s been reliably estimated that 2 million children have been thrown into poverty…

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Basic Responsibility contd.

Tweet On first half of this post I may have seemed to be picking on the fathers….  but Mothers also need to think and act responsibly.  Having children outside of a meaningful relationship and without means of properly supporting and nurturing them is the polar opposite of motherhood!  Compounding your destructive behavior with multiple partners is reprehensible.

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THE Basic Responsibility

Tweet I have seen first hand (years of volunteer work in leadership positions) the damage a dysfunctional family unit inflicts.  Many women struggle to raise and provide for their children without support of any kind, neither involvement nor financial) from their fathers.  They may not want to be with the mother of those children but that does…

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Addiction – Abandonment

Tweet The link between addition (alcohol/drug/abuse) and abandonment screams out!  The genesis of many addictions is rooted in familial or relationship breakup.  The deep scars inflicted by the abandomnent cause many to look for solace in drugs or alcohol However, any relief is temporary as the user inevitably ups the ante till they lose control.  Breakups will…

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Origins…

Tweet Where does our insecurity come from?  countless wayys from the loss or abandoment by a parent, a culture that rewards physical appearance, some dark espisode in our past that planted  the seeds of self doubt….  Add a few of your own…

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